I am trying to think of something special to do for my husband this year but no ideas?
FF GURU Asked: I am trying to think of something special to do for my husband this year but no ideas?
We had our first child this year (a little girl), and we just found out we are expecting another baby in October. We don't normally exchange Valentine's Day gifts, so it doesn't have to be anything extravagant, but I want something he will really appreciate.
He isn't big into food. He is a guys guy. Loves poker, sports, fantasy football. But I'm not necessarily looking for something along those lines. I am trying to find something clever. Plus, I'd like to have one gift from me, and one from my daughter.
The only thing I can think of are photo ideas, and I really don't want to do that. I already did that for his first Fathers Day.
Thanks in advance!
You say that he is a guys guy and likes sports etc. Doesn't really count as 'sports' but if he likes pool you could buy him a personalised pool cue, maybe engraved with his name. At least this is something he can use again and again and will get alot of use out of.
If there's a colonge he likes that he doesn't already have, that might be a good idea. If he's into reading, maybe a book from his favourite author. Or even if he isn't much of a reader, find a biography of someone he really likes, that way he will be interested in reading it.
There is a book called 'Why I love my daddy' that is quite cute that would be nice to give from your daughter. Or maybe a print of her handprint and footprint on canvas if that's something you haven't already gotten done.
Hope these ideas help!
I divorced HIM !really!
Yeah, sounds like he's doing it to get some excitement by getting women interested and possibly to nab some naked pictures. It's almost cheating, except he's leaving himself unavailable. Really quite clever but still messed up, at least to the women who get emotionally attached to his alter ego, and you. I'd say confront him about it because it's pretty cruel. Leave the porn sites alone, but this is crossing the line. If he keeps it up, it's up to you if you can see him the same way despite it. Not sure if he's a sex addict, could be experimental and the first and last time he does it.
Every relationship at some point can become stale. My wife caught me looking at a hot Asian chick website and man she was really upset with me. I told her that I don't want to look at unknown women and would much rather look at sexy pictures of her. Not only did she oblige in the making of our own home porn, I have honestly never been more attracted to her than I am now. I may be weird but watching your wife dress sexy and even act slutty to satisfy your needs is one of the best recipes to keep a the sexual part of a relationship steaming hot! I have not looked at any other women online because its just not as hot as looking at someone you care about and she cares enough to be your own private adult movie star. I should say it does help when your wife is hot.
something to get his mind going.. and heart racing. It definitely does sound like addictive behaviour, but I mean.. I would not tell him.. and look for signs of cheating.
Apparently there is another side to your boyfriend that you didn't know about. So now you have a choice…is this the kind of guy you want to have a romantic relationship with? If you enjoy the way he treats you and you enjoy the sex, and you're not looking for a potential marriage partner, why not continue? His private obsession isn't affecting how he treats you. But if you were looking to get married, this is not the kind of guy anyone would recommend as a long-term partner. Think about it.
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